An Easy Problem

“Mummy, kindly gimme Rs.20/-“, she quests and then you reply saying that,” I want an eco-friendly long-book to chalk down the notes of Maths”, but one thing for sure you are not propitious to Maths, right? ….anyways, you get that book from the nearby stationary store. You bring the one which enlists your favourite Savoyard on the front-cover of the book, then you look at the last-page whereby all information, white paper, games, etc are mentioned, then you look at the last-but-one page where persuading, ethical quotes are displayed … you read with jocund, so today I wish to make you savvy with one of the most commonly used term ‘Depression’ …

As far as my knowledge, you may be well-versed with the renowned quote “When oppressed or depressed, just smile” and many other blah-blah-blah ….! You read, you enjoy these all but don’t follow, well this is a problem for you but for me it’s a Depression... You know why because you are depressed, why the hell we talk about depression? By the way, what is this? …our so-called Indian Education Model which pretends to be pragmatic defines “Depression” in its respective text books as , “ An encumbrance which causes physiological as well as psychological disorder or imbalance causing us to behave in an alien way or improper attitude affecting us and the society” , that’s all …we learn it and score 80-90% making the so-called Human society and autocratic-parents happy , but if 79% is scored we get depressed and the said parties make us feel disappointed as if a crime is committed , this depression can be tackled easily but the real problem is ‘we’ who don’t want to obviate , we want to sit with it and enjoy as if it’s a fruit … I don’t why , do you know ?

When we pass through depression, an imbroglio is felt, suicidal tendencies arise, we feel low and weak, we turn atheist, and we listen to sad songs from Bollywood , we turn to our so-called friends for help but their real picture is presented …instead you (my best friend) , we must be gratitude towards Depression as this is an exam where we can ratiocinate our Friends , it assists us to judge them , in this phase we can highlight our potentials and will-power , we can also takeover our foibles , we can learn lot of things from this phase but still we keep our halitosis mouth shut and sit with it..

The real problem is that we read about depression, we know about the ways to overcome it but still because of our looby nature we love to live with depression, people who think that depression can be overcome through drugs, smoking, drinks, are the worst people...it will relieve them but only for short-term but later ‘Cancer’ …Its also best to circumvent promiscuous women or partner during this phase ……Sex can also cure but perform it only when you are married. Ok. ….Read your favourite books , betrothal with your avocation , meditation & yoga , evening walk , socialising with good and positive people , writings , sleeping , good diet , visiting religious places will surely cure it but the thing is ‘’to do’’ …

There are various causes for depression, but I can recommend you is to stop being over-possessive for someone who is not meant for you, its not mandatory that everyone should have an exquisite beau …its best that possession for Human-Being is absent because our expectations may not be fulfilled, one can’t derive happiness from others but it can be derived from one-self …embark looking in yourself, be yourself, don’t pretend …keep smiling, stay..Think...feel …talk positive , strengthen your will-power as you are not born to be ruled by others… you are born to rule others , this is your world …when others can play with you but I think you should not because there exists the distinguish between ‘Human Beings’ and ‘Animals’ ..God will answer that person, we are no one but we can be like God...

Our mind is the most powerful entity. It can accept depression / stress or it can kick depression …it’s on you how you rule your mind. Everyone passes through tribulations (its nature’s law) …when we feel low just take an instance of Sir Louis Braille who at the age of 3 got blind and lived with this for 40 years, he just not only lived happily but invented ‘Braille Language’ for the sightless people, he could’ve committed suicide but instead he left an indelible mark in the world which kept out our Jaws open …Just think over this my dear friend? Just switch on the idiot box and put DVD of Hera Pheri and watch Baburao Ganpatrao Apte (Paresh Rawal) , listen to slow music / Kholo Darwaze from Tare Zameen Par / Lakshya from Lakshya or type youtube.com and watch speeches of Obama (an American President of afro-American origin where in Africa people die of hunger and crime) who shouts ‘yes , We can’ ..Then I think you can …

Say bye-bye to problems, perform your best keeping in mind the capability-power , win over anger / ego , lead yourself , don’t be reliable , be kosher to yourself , create your own Mavel , avoid back-biting and keep distance from Yenta …enrich and live the colourful life by beholding the mentioned image:-